Achieving our goals

New Year’s resolutions? Here is an interesting blog sharing some thoughts on the power of decision and focusing on the future.

All dreams are real. All dreams come true. We start 2023 with great enthusiasm, not focusing on the past, but only on the future and the freedom we have to continue creating the life we want.

The subject of goals can be tricky. We try and try to achieve things over and over again and sometimes we end up giving up on our hopes and dreams.

Somehow, we accumulate a lot of stress from trying to prove to ourselves and others that we can make our dreams come true, and also the pressure of all the losses of the past, of all the times we tried to achieve our goals and failed. There are so many losses and attacks we have received in the past that we become afraid to dream, we may even laugh at anyone who dares to dream, God forbid they dream big. And all this baggage of bad emotions that we carry increases the more we distrust ourselves and our ability to achieve, the more we move away from dreaming and towards "adapting" to "reality".

I believe we are capable of creating realities not just adapting which may come in handy in some cases but not with dreams. Dreams are untouchable and create new realities. The only thing you have to do is to rekindle that fire that someone or some others or circumstances or even you yourself have been dimming and even extinguishing.

You, right now you can dream again. I challenge you. I dare you to dream outside the box, outside the system. You are great, and your dreams have a chance of coming true if only you decide they are real. That is the only secret, if it is a secret. Maybe it's so easy and simple that we forget that we have that ability to cause things. For me, there is no secret, you have the magic wand. Please use it and use it to help many people. Although I know your dreams already include bringing beauty and happiness to the World as that is our nature. We are the good people, we are the champions, we are the gladiators, we are the dreamers, we are the believers, we are the creators of life.

So, listen giant, recognize your nature and stand up, smile, hope, dream, dance, create, sing again! You are free and you don't need permission to think independently and make things happen your way. Why not? Times are changing, we are freer, things are becoming more possible. We are also collectively bringing about beautiful progress.

Let's put aside the bad thoughts, let's ignore them. Wherever they come from, they have no place in your dreams, in your creative thinking. Put aside the negative. Focus on the positive, on the possible. In the end, all dreams come true.

That's why I get excited about the future, especially when I'm singing and dancing and in action, there is no past, it doesn't exist, there is almost no present as I only feel free to create the future when I'm creating artistically.

So one last thing, apart from dreaming, we have to remember to put an end to the cycles of the past that didn't happen. Don't stay in a loop. The way to win and persist even in those dreams is to create them again but in a new beginning. We are not in the past, it's gone. So remember to take advantage of this new beginning and create in the now, in the present towards the future. Put yourself into action by trying to achieve your dreams in the immediate future. It becomes exciting to the point where you don't care who does or doesn't believe in your vision, you are living it and materializing it! So get into the zone of your DREAMS and move into ACTION in the PRESENT. Dare!

Happy New Year 2023!

Brenda Marie